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Linda Wood Edwards, Funeral Celebrant Jannie Edwards Linda Wood Edwards Linda Wood Edwards never intended to become a funeral celebrant. As a young woman, she had no idea such a role existed. But when her trusted boss and mentor died unexpectedly of a heart attack, Linda was asked by his wife to speak at his funeral. As she solicited stories from his family members and wove them into a eulogy, Linda experienced firsthand the healing effects of shared participation in the mourning process. In addition to preparing a eulogy, the family asked Linda to be present at the evening viewing of the open casket to greet those who came to pay their respects. Like most baby boom children of the 1960s, she had been shielded from attending funerals even though she had experienced signifi cant early loss — more than ten family deaths by the time she was thirteen. That evening, in the hushed and peaceful visitation room, Linda felt a sense of community in the loss she shared 28 | arta.net with the friends and family who came to make their personal farewells to a well-loved and respected man. Linda began to think that she could become a professional giver of eulogies. She knew that she was a good communicator and storyteller, and she had experienced the memorable results of a personalized life tribute and authentic funeral service. Over the next few years, Linda discovered a growing funeral celebrant movement that was encouraged by Doug Manning, a former Baptist minister who had established an institute to off er certifi cation training for celebrants, guiding their skills in helping families prepare unique funeral and memorial services that meaningfully refl ect the lifestyle and personality of the deceased. Linda took this training with noted grief counsellor and educator Dr Alan Wolfelt to deepen her understanding of the grieving and mourning process.