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Spirituality and Wellness Peggy McDonagh The Enchanted Heart Journalist Henry Louis Mencken wrote: “An enchanted life has many moments when the heart is overwhelmed with beauty and the imagination is electrified by some haunting quality in the world or by a spirit or voice speaking from deep within a thing, a place, or a person.” Enchantment is about being overwhelmed or captivated by something beautiful, breathtaking, or heart-lifting such as a stirring novel, a mountain view, a walk through the forest, a falling star, a symphony, or a brilliant sunset. We can be fascinated by people as well, by their way of being, their wisdom, compassion, or enthusiasm. Enchantment is what we feel when our hearts are wide open and allow us to be drawn into experiences or encounters through which we feel a profound sense of connection, wonderment, and inspiration. Celtic mysticism considers the heart to be a metaphor for the true or authentic self, the self in which love resides; and when our hearts are enchanted, love bursts forth and infuses our actions, interactions, speech, and way of being. Spiritually speaking, the heart is often described as being either hard or soft, and the spiritual journey is an ongoing process of keeping the heart soft so that love flows freely. Celtic spirituality teaches that enchantment exists within every heart. We certainly see this in children. When children feel valued, safe, loved, and free to be curious, their imaginations are captivated by a butterfly, a mud puddle, a bird, a dandelion, a tiny frog in the grass, a kite flying, a bubble — and even a stick. Everything is new, mysterious, and fascinating. Very young children have soft hearts enabling them to embrace people, nature, and experiences with wonder, love and openness. As children grow, life’s events and circumstances challenge them. Some may get bullied, experience 16 | arta.net dysfunction in their family life, struggle to feel good about themselves, or feel neglected, unloved and not safe. Many children feel anxious about the state of the world. In these ways, the enchantment begins to dissipate as anxiety and fear arise and these children begin to close off their hearts to protect themselves. Thus, begins the slow process of hardening. As we age, disillusionment can harden the heart because of conflicting cultural messages, the stresses, speed, and busyness of everyday life, financial worries, the bombardment of negative news and worldwide conflicts, the harm and hurt caused by discrimination and hatred, and environmental concerns. We discover that education does not always secure good jobs, marriages fall apart, and raising children can be difficult. Careers consume our