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Memoirs Made Easy Sharon Goerg For the Summer 2014 issue of news&views, I wrote an article about writing memoirs. At the time, I taught workshops and had a long-running memoir group at a lodge in Viking. Today, in a new location, I lead workshops and run two groups in retirement homes to help people recall their lives in memoir format. The focus of these workshops is on the importance of sharing their stories with today’s generation and future generations. In her memoirs, Grandma Moses (Anna Mary Moses) stated: “I have written my life in small sketches, a little today, a little yesterday, as I have thought of it, as I remember all the things from childhood on through the years, good ones and unpleasant ones.” I have learned, however, that many participants do not fi nd writing or typing an easy task and need simplifi ed ways to capture their stories and leave their legacies. Memoirs don’t need to be in paragraph or essay form. There are many other possibilities such as letters, drawings, cartoons, conversations, or slogans. These styles work well for those who want to be more creative and artistic. Here are some simplifi ed ways ‘to get down your past’: 1. List a daily schedule you had when you were a child, a teenager, a young adult (married or not), and a parent, and perhaps compare it to a schedule for your present day. 2. Pick a holiday and explain what made it special or traditional. 3. Make memory banks about family members. For example, title a paper ‘Mother’ and, from time to time, as you think of her characteristics, jot them down. Favourite aunts, uncles, and cousins can also be listed this way. (Use short phrases, complete sentences aren’t necessary.) 4. List some of the inventions that were introduced during your life with a few notes beside them explaining when the invention was received and its signifi cance in your life. Most women in any of my groups believe the automatic washing 48 | arta.net machine to be one of the best inventions over the years. 5. Pick a season and, using just phrases or lists, describe the sights, smells, and other senses that you recall of that season, and why you chose it. 6. Write a sentence or two about the turning points in your life. Perhaps elaborate on one. What were the results? 7. Recipes are always good to copy for others — especially family favourites. 8. Use four words that describe you. Perhaps give more detail on your selections. 9. Your dislikes and likes are always interesting to readers. 10. In writing about an earthquake I experienced in Grade 2, I realized I wanted to know more about its consequences. Google is very helpful to provide information that we can no longer recall. 11. Diagrams and maps of family homes, farms, and old neighbourhoods are always interesting and usually only need labelling. 12. Photos and all that they detail can be listed: clothes worn, when and why was the photo taken, who took the photo. Don’t forget what you notice in the background. Is there any story around the photo? 13. Group photos, like class photos or reunions, do not need an essay to accompany them. List your