5 . More time for loved ones . More free time usually translates to more time to spend with those who really matter . Which brings us to our next advantage of old age —
6 . Grandchildren . The experience of raising your own children makes you value your grandchildren that much more . They offer love and a fulfilling relationship , with less responsibility . We can spoil them , love them to bits , and send them home at the end of the day .
7 . More stable friendships and relationships . By the time you ’ ve reached old age , you ’ ve likely been able to filter through unrewarding and toxic friendships and relationships . Having and maintaining quality friendships and relationships contribute to companionship , which is a huge factor for longevity . I have three very dear girlfriends , and we ’ ve already decided that if we outlive our husbands , we ’ re going to move in together . We love to play cards , take walks , eat girl food , do aquacize in the pool , and relax in the hot tub . We will get a granny nanny to live with us and drive us to our appointments , and all will be well .
8 . Good stories to tell . Who doesn ’ t appreciate a good story ? The longer you live , the more experiences you have , which translates to more good stories to tell . Fond memories , whether kept to yourself or told to someone else , are a huge advantage of old age .
9 . Greater sense of self . The older you are , the more you know who you are , which allows you to be less influenced by outside opinion and less bound by cultural restraints . When you have a greater sense of self , decision-making is easier . Knowing yourself allows you to be yourself , and no one can say you ’ re doing it wrong ! Be grateful for who you are .
Remember , gratitude is a choice . We get to choose to be grateful every day and look for the good things in our lives .
A retired elementary music teacher , Bonnie Bauer lives with her husband Stan on an acreage just outside of Vermilion . She loves life and is grateful for her family , friends , and the opportunities of retirement .
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